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Who to Say Yes to Part 2


Hi, am sure you know when there is patience on the inside of you no matter how thick the situations around you look like, everything will flow according to its path revealing the truth and bringing clarity. Am not saying long relationship huh and am saying choosing the right partner for your life requires clarity because it’s very crucial in decision making. A lot of folk out there were patience yet got it wrong because their patience lacks clarity. Clarity is having rightful information about something, facts and figures you can prove. Lack of adequate information about any subject brings failure. So getting adequate information requires diligent search. Every lawyer understands what it means to sign a document, daring to skip or overlook information in the document can cost a lot.

So as a male/female it’s highly required you diligently search what you are about to consent to. At least it is normal you know or have some proves of what you are about to consent to. Hum, and I want to believe you understand what it means to consent? If not let me list a little for you:

Future: Saying yes to a man in relationship/marriage simply means, you are agreeing to whatever future that lies ahead. So whatever comes his way you both have a share in it. I hope you are looking at the man right now and you are answering the question of “can I bear whatever that comes with this future?” Do you have the faith rooted enough in him to stand against storms and challenges of life? Because it will come. Am not scaring you dear, the same also goes to the man. Maybe let me help you both a little, future is only an output result. So basically you don’t consider the result as much as being correct in your inputs/calculations. Actually every correct mathematician understood they don’t mark result first rather the steps/workings that led to the result. There are many routes to result in life but two channels to the workings that lead to the future.

Heavenly bodies

14 And God said, Let there be lights in the firmament of the heaven to divide the day from the night; and let them be for signs, and for seasons, and for days, and years: Gen 1:14

In considering the future and understanding the times and seasons for the fulfillment of every promises or expectation made by both of you, it’s very important you know about external forces that surrounds us. So that your expectation as a male/female will not be damage. I need you to pay attention to the great mystery of this two light. One rules the Day while the other rules the Night.


And God saw the light, that it was good: and God divided the light from the darkness.

And God called the light Day, and the darkness he called Night. And the evening and the morning were the first day.

16 And God made two great lights; the greater light to rule the day, and the lesser light to rule the night: he made the stars also. Gen 1

Every light is a representation of the firmament of the heavenly bodies. Every manifestation you see on earth is a proof of the existence of divine powers i.e external influences of the heavenly bodies. No matter how it looks ordinary or physical this external forces are influencing light (humans) that rules or dominate every portion here on earth. In return to this influence is the battle of revealing the nature of the heavenly bodies in charge of our life. So it is either you are supporting or sponsoring a particular heavenly body and against the other vice versa. Either consciously or unconsciously this is happening in our lives.

So as a female/male you have to understand every inputs your partner is putting into his life/relationship is a pointer to one of the heavenly bodies (Either the great light that rules the Day or the lesser light that rules the Night) agenda for the future.

We only have two teams here on earth: Light and Darkness. So whatever future you are expecting from you partner will land you in one of these two teams. Since these two teams are in a battle of revealing who they are, what they are etc our future will be a tool or channel of unveiling their nature.

Our relationship is a channel to revealing heaven bodies

16 And God made two great lights; the greater light to rule the day, and the lesser light to rule the night: he made the stars also. Gen 1

No matter how our lives are, everyone lives is a replica to one of this heavenly bodies either Christianity, Islam, Buddhism etc name it we are all contributing to the manifestation of their workings on earth.

The darkness is deceiving many of us due to the fact that we cannot pick someone has the one the dark world is using in reaching their goals on earth because darkness uses collective capacity of individuals in reaching their objective.

The future/relationship everyone of us is dreaming is either going to play a collective role of contributing its quota in reaching the darkness interest or light interest. We just woke up seeing this world becoming evil everyday yet never ask how? The dark world uses collective principle in reaching their goal by collecting the results of tares placed in wheat. No matter your capacity in doing evil either grievous or not they prefer it because by the time they collate the little tare in everyone it becomes a mighty ocean whose source is little.

So as a sister or brother you need to look critically into the man you are about to follow his future or else your future dream will be in support to darkness unknowingly even as a Christian. All the devil need is a tare in our lives.

After understanding how the devil works I asked the Lord why doesn’t he chooses the same principle to fight back the devil? He said to me “you don’t have to be known has a devil’s child to work the devil’s work, only a tare in your life is required” but to work the works of the father effectively you must be a son. All what the great light need is a man to carry the fullness of his light to displace the gross darkness of this world. God can never use half light to rule the Day, he will rather decide to wait for a son than use half bake.

So the devil does not need anyone to be pointed as devil to make use of him while God needs everyone pointed as God’s people to make use of him for displacing darkness totally. So what will make a female to cry or regret saying yes in the future is not that she didn’t have wheat rather her wheat (partner) is containing a tare.

Don’t forget relationship/marriage is sweet at the beginning only suddenly will you began to see tare springing forth. Today’s topic is not a matter of finding the wheat rather the little tare invisible to you now but will still manifest later. Your partner will either take you to heaven or land you in darkness, not because he is not a christian but because he contains tare. Jesus said be happy though the enemy comes but he has nothing of his in me. Be sure one day the devil will come to check out your relationship or marriage.

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God bless.


You can also read When to say “yes” to a relationship proposal

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