Series Topic: Kingdom Pattern to a God’s Relationship
Part 1: God’s structure for relationship (Contd)
Text: John 6:44
Application of this Kingdom Principle to Female World
I rose up to open to my beloved; and my hands dropped with myrrh, and my fingers with sweet smelling myrrh, upon the handles of the lock.
I opened to my beloved; but my beloved had withdraw himself, and was gone: my soul failed when he spake: I sought him, but I could not find him; I called him, but he gave me no answer.
The watchmen that went about the city found me, they smote me, they wounded me; the keepers of the walls took away my veil from me Song of Solomon 5:5-7 KJV
To the female world this principle could have been use against you, to crush down your trust, to hurt your love so bad that maybe you hardly believe there is a godly initiator out there anymore. But I want to tell you not to give up don’t lose hope, good initiators are still available all around you; don’t allow your past experience about that devilish initiator you met last time or maybe you haven’t even met any good one before to shape your thinking, plant a wrong judgment into your system and blind you to the good one seated in front of you.
It’s for your Assessment
Because this principle is a gateway it simply means both bad and good initiator will use it as an entry. If Jesus used it then you have no choose then to keep giving chances or else you become like the Pharisee:
Jesus answered and said unto them, Ye do err, not knowing the scriptures, nor the power of God Mat 22:29 KJV
Search the scriptures; for in them ye think ye have eternal life: and they are they which testify of me John 5:39 KJV
They missed Jesus proposal for them because they held so much to what they have experience, there past was so strong on them that it blindfolded them to the right initiator. Don’t be like this; your experience will fail you again unless you shift in your mindset. Don’t forget you are dealing with the heart (And the heart is so deep who can know it). In the infinite wisdom of the designer of relationship, he created this platform for the purpose of attraction, building healthy mindset with each other, coagulating thoughts together etc those times you are spending in taking lunch together, meeting in church seeing each other in neighborhood is for this purpose:
What to Assess in your initiator
- To assess the technicalities employ: So much vital you study this aspect. Technicalities are traceable to the believe system of your initiator. No matter how cunning your initiator can be, a technicality must be employ in dealing with you. And you must be sensitive enough to extract this believe system that lies within the technicalities. Let me be straight here, if the believe system is bad then run.
- Presentation: This where you know if the initiator as a value system for others. The presentation carries the initiator experience, approach to life etc
- Confidence: Confidence is a proof of one’s identity. Its internal built thing over the years. Being shy is not the same as confidence infact gentility, quietness doesn’t correlate with confidence. Test the confidence
Wrong Definition to Female World
You ought to be strong; it’s not your weakness but a strength to you. It’s your identity an inbuilt strength given to you by God to differentiate between good and evil initiator. What am I saying “Females are move by what they hear” that’s a lie, big one. Have you ever thought to yourself if the ability of the females is to hear and that of the man is to speak the “THE FEMALE STANDS TO POSSESS THE SPIRIT OF A JUDGE”
The Spirit of Judgment: The only person that hears in a court room is a judge and the hearing isn’t a weakness “Are there not female judge” are they crying like mosquitoes in court room? common on what kind of perception is that? Females get back on your feet, get back your stolen feelings, identity, emotions etc and stand to judge right that devilish initiator and give right judgment to the right initiator. It’s a strength not a weakness, stand right on your feet, Hallelujah.
Harshness is not part of wisdom in dealing with your initiator, you need calmness, timely accuracy etc to hear out the initiator. Your past shouldn’t distract you, forgive yourself, and forget the mistakes because another initiator is waiting for your Judgment ma. Be careful of the watchmen and the keepers of the walls Song of Solomon 5:5-7 KJV